Born or Choice?

[Hellsome]

I've never heard of anyone "becoming gay for a person".
Gays don't just feel attracted to one person and decide "I'll become gay!"
They're just like straight people, we're turned on by the same sex though, rather than the opposite.

Can you honestly say when you look at someone who arouses you, you made a conscious decision to become turned on and aroused? If so, please see a doctor; that's not normal, dear.

If you've never seen that, then I urge you to find documentaries about Oscar Wilde.

Although it was an "experiment" Oscar Wilde still had the choice of remaining gay or not. However, it was his choice to remain gay despite his wife and two children.

Also, it was a choice for Oscar Wilde because of how he decided to try the experiment out after he was starting a family.

And to your last statement, I should actually ask you that same question. I can bet that there has been at least one moment in your life when you were mildly attracted to a person of the same sex. If not, then that's a lie.