Born or Choice?

[Hellsome]

I never understood why anyone could think someone would want to CHOOSE a life where:
a. Love is harder to find.. a ton less gays than straight people.
b. Most people don't like you.
c. You're officially a target of the KKK. (lols)
d. People constantly argue about why you made such a "stupid choice"

Some people honestly don't give a crap about what others think of them.

And the quantity of gays in a society does not influence a person to be gay or not. If they became gay for a person, then it's not going to make a difference if they live in a gay Utopian society since they have that one person they love.
It's like favoring one thing that one of two other people like while others favor the other thing; the people favoring the one thing don't really care about those who don't favor what they favor.

Also, People may constantly argue about why gay individuals made a "stupid choice", but then the individual would most likely counter that with a counterargument asking why they made the stupid choice of staying straight.

Honestly, it's a choice.

[Frostbite]

Some people honestly don't give a crap about what others think of them.

And the quantity of gays in a society does not influence a person to be gay or not. If they became gay for a person, then it's not going to make a difference if they live in a gay Utopian society since they have that one person they love.
It's like favoring one thing that one of two other people like while others favor the other thing; the people favoring the one thing don't really care about those who don't favor what they favor.

Also, People may constantly argue about why gay individuals made a "stupid choice", but then the individual would most likely counter that with a counterargument asking why they made the stupid choice of staying straight.

Honestly, it's a choice.

I've never heard of anyone "becoming gay for a person".
Gays don't just feel attracted to one person and decide "I'll become gay!"
They're just like straight people, we're turned on by the same sex though, rather than the opposite.

Can you honestly say when you look at someone who arouses you, you made a conscious decision to become turned on and aroused? If so, please see a doctor; that's not normal, dear.

[Hellsome]

I've never heard of anyone "becoming gay for a person".
Gays don't just feel attracted to one person and decide "I'll become gay!"
They're just like straight people, we're turned on by the same sex though, rather than the opposite.

Can you honestly say when you look at someone who arouses you, you made a conscious decision to become turned on and aroused? If so, please see a doctor; that's not normal, dear.

If you've never seen that, then I urge you to find documentaries about Oscar Wilde.

Although it was an "experiment" Oscar Wilde still had the choice of remaining gay or not. However, it was his choice to remain gay despite his wife and two children.

Also, it was a choice for Oscar Wilde because of how he decided to try the experiment out after he was starting a family.

And to your last statement, I should actually ask you that same question. I can bet that there has been at least one moment in your life when you were mildly attracted to a person of the same sex. If not, then that's a lie.

[Frostbite]

If you've never seen that, then I urge you to find documentaries about Oscar Wilde.

Although it was an "experiment" Oscar Wilde still had the choice of remaining gay or not. However, it was his choice to remain gay despite his wife and two children.

Also, it was a choice for Oscar Wilde because of how he decided to try the experiment out after he was starting a family.

And to your last statement, I should actually ask you that same question. I can bet that there has been at least one moment in your life when you were mildly attracted to a person of the same sex. If not, then that's a lie.

He didn't "choose to remain gay." He chose to stop lieing and show who he truly was.

Yes, I've only had crushes on guys.
And no, I've never even been mildly attracted to a girl. I think vaginas are the most disgusting thing in the world, and when I see a pretty girl, I wanna be her friend, not have sex with her.

You are ignorant if you think you can tell a gay person that you know more about them than they do.

[Hellsome]

He didn't "choose to remain gay." He chose to stop lieing and show who he truly was.

Yes, I've only had crushes on guys.
And no, I've never even been mildly attracted to a girl. I think vaginas are the most disgusting thing in the world, and when I see a pretty girl, I wanna be her friend, not have sex with her.

You are ignorant if you think you can tell a gay person that you know more about them than they do.

Your bold part is basically supporting the statement that he remained gay.

Also, do quote where I directly said I knew more than you do.