We, say ***** not ******. Its like when somebody calls you stupid or retarded you get mad, but when you call yourself stupid or retarded your feelings don't get hurt at all, it not we want to get mad just when white people say it, we do, because everytime a white person does say it, it is a term of racism. That's why we get offended, and you can't think of yourself just, because when you say it, black people get mad and you don't mean it that way, every white person make it seem as a term of racism so that is what we will take it as.(I'm only half black)
I wonder if people who are slow get offended when the word retarded is used, because if thats the case they are hated on alot more then minorities...