You're blaming the victim just because she made a stupid choice doesn't give someone the right to rape her. I think a few years ago I would have thought the same thing as you, but after talking few people who were raped it really changed my opinion. In any case I don't think she was "asking" for it. For her she was just hurt and upset, got smashed, and in her lack of judgement thought one of her exs friends was being a pretty cool dude that night to let her chill over at his place. Maybe she thought her exs friend was a decent guy, not someone that'd decided to rape a girl. When you think about it, who's fault really is it? I he could have decided not to rape her, but ultimately he decided to take advantage of her. What right does he have to rape her? In all honesty? I don't think it's so fair to the victim that you can't dress, act, look, go somewhere, with out people thinking, "Oh, she got raped?" "What a stupid bitch." I just never get why people blame the victim, when in the end again it was the person who decided to take advantage of the victims fault. I mean he could of, well decided not to shove his dick in her while she was sleeping, I hope he at least used a condom for her sake. I mean if you were to be walking some where and you got raped besides your better judgement would you feel it was your fault. Say you were wearing the color blue, and someone raped you because of that. Would you say it's your fault for being a retard and wearing blue? Or if someone steals your car because you parked it in a shady part of town is that the victims fault too? Most of the time women are harder on rape victims, it gives them the illusion they'll never be raped as long as they never do anything stupid themselves. It makes me sad that women are so critical of other women due to their own insecurities. (Not saying necessarily you of course)