Quote Originally Posted by CL0V3R View Post
In all honesty I'd take that as a hint that the other person wasn't genuinely interested or wants to play stupid games with me. I'm not looking for a guy to be unpredictable, or go out of their way to make it seem like they'd rather not hang out with me. I mean sure if they have something else to do that's okay, but wouldn't you just be playing a sort of game as well? Maybe I'm weird but in a relationship I'm looking for my best friend, not some weird dating ritual. If someone just ignores me I'm going to think they are either mad or don't like me. If I haven't done anything and I can't figure it out I'd try talking with them first. Make my feelings known you know? If that were to fail and the other person tried to lead me on a "chase". I'd consider it not worth my time because it isn't what I'm looking for. I want someone who can be honest with me because I'm an overly honest person. I'm blunt and will tell you how I feel. I extend that to the other person as well. Damn it, I just want a best friend that I'm in love with. Because when the newness wears off and the dating state is over, that's really what you're left with. If you can't be a friend with that person your relationship will fail in the long run.
Clover, you're not weird. You just acknowledge and would use a rational mature method for relationship formation. No one else does that because they can't talk directly with anotr person about how they feel or become uncomfortable when others do. If it'd been more successful I'd still be doing the same thing. But since trying to do that when you run across people like Vie leads to repeated failure and pain you have to adapt and start doing something else. The hope is that eventually you get somewhere with that.