Quote Originally Posted by Obby View Post
again, its societies and the media teaching these girls that if they want to attract a man they need to be trashy and wear ludicrous clothing, Be to be anorexic and other things. Once you delete the image from the media...then we will see if they are slutty or not.
This I agree with, and have personally experienced in the opposite way. I'm a 23 year old female, and in terms of body type, I am attractive. However, I don't show any of that off. Nearly all of my clothes are male / unisex. Usually somewhat baggy jeans and t-shirts. I don't wear makeup, do elaborate things with my hair, or wear any other kind of clothing or accessory that isn't practical. Because of the plain and unisex way I dress, there have been people who either questioned my sexuality and/or thought it was strange, weird, or "unacceptable" for me to not dress like "an attractive young woman should dress." Even my own mother thinks that the way I dress is unacceptable.