Predatory women are destroying the sexual confidence of young men in Ireland - with some men as young as 20 now turning to Viagra to prop up their flagging libido.
A growing 'ladette' culture of women who prefer instant action is proving so intimidating that more and more young men are taking the blue pill to cope.
The claim comes from Ireland's leading psychosexual therapist, who says that in the past year she has met a growing number of anxious young males who complain they are expected to "perform at will".
Mary O'Conor says the rising number of women who want instant gratification within hours of meeting a man is leading to immense pressure to perform between the sheets.
"There is a certain group of women who are ladettes and they are just out to have a good time," says Ms O'Conor. "They want to have sex and they don't want any strings attached.
"They say that they give guys the wrong number or that they don't give them a number at all. It's a bit like what would have been traditionally viewed as 'the stereotypical lad'."
The Dublin-based sex therapist says women are now more vocal than ever about their demands and that this pressure is forcing some young men to turn to the erection-enhancing drug for help.
"For guys who are not very confident, they find it difficult when they are expected to perform at will on the first night, which can lead to problems.
"They can become very anxious and this in turn can lead to a situation where they are again apprehensive the next time they're with a girl. So it's a whole other aspect of erectile dysfunction that we're seeing now."
However, men as young as their late teens are now plucking up the courage to seek professional help.
"I am seeing men who are as young as 19," says Ms O'Conor. "Certainly 20 and 21-year-old guys [who are coming to see me] would be taking Viagra or Cialis.
"These guys sometimes feel that they should be able to perform at will and I'm trying to reassure them that they shouldn't.
"There should be some element of the chase and there certainly should be some element that they fancy the girl and they should certainly know her. But unfortunately the natural order of things is being side-tracked."
A recent survey carried out by the Erectile Dysfunction Information Bureau revealed that men consider impotence to be the most embarrassing medical problem to discuss with a doctor.
The study found that only 10 per cent of men who experience impotence ever seek medical help.
Nervous young men ‘being forced’ to take Viagra - Local & National, News - Belfasttelegraph.co.uk
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Kinda old but thought it was interesting..
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- 21 Nov. 2009 11:49pm #1
Nervous young men ‘being forced’ to take Viagra
- 21 Nov. 2009 11:54pm #2
Makes you think; America is a very.... strange country. Seeing that they are freaking out and we do it on a daily basis and it's normal e.0
- 22 Nov. 2009 03:23am #3
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- 22 Nov. 2009 08:59pm #4
Hey Google... How about you start posting these news threads in the junkyard.
- 23 Nov. 2009 01:39am #5
There are people packing 8 inch heat even crying about their size.
When the world wide average is 5.5inches.
Remember race means nothing about size.
But yea, people gotta stop worrying about size.
If the partner doesn't like it or has a problem, then they're not the one.
Minora why would he do that, this isn't useless spam.
- 23 Nov. 2009 06:21am #6
- 23 Nov. 2009 08:43pm #7
Ive never been told to take the pill, but hey, im only 14 and ive only done it 3 times.
- 23 Nov. 2009 09:19pm #8
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Well I am 7.75 inch I want to be bigger, I would like to know if there are ways to get bigger. Bigger is better as I always say.
And race does have a lot to do with size, just as race is genetic so is the size. It's not like you roll dice and whatever you roll you get.
Each country has an average and USA has the largest average of everywhere.
- 23 Nov. 2009 09:24pm #9
Well.
I'm only 14 and I would love to be "bigger" in a sense. But, enough is enough y'know? I say 6 Inches is good enough to please a woman. I've only had sex once, and I don't take any pills. And, I'm only about....5.7 I guess, but hey, it doesn't stop growing til' I'm 30.
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- 24 Nov. 2009 01:50am #13
I dont need a pill. I'm a natural XD.
Thats kinda of a shame that dudes are doing that.
You let a girl put you down like that
Well i dont have trry about that
- 24 Nov. 2009 01:53am #14
Exactly ya know not all girls fuck guys with huge dicks, ya know some girls are like, dude, whetever hurts the least. Either way if you love somone why would you judge there size anyways.Thats unsmarticly.Im a virgin so i wouldnt know exactly, i mean I am only 15, I dont think I should have sex right now, isnt it like unhealthy or some bullshit like that?
- 24 Nov. 2009 02:05am #15
It's a healthy proccess I think minus the diseases.
But really on the pills. Only old people and dumb adults and kids take the pills
- 24 Nov. 2009 02:08am #16
Sex is healthy? (excluding std) lol more the reason to give it up i guess?
- 24 Nov. 2009 02:27am #17
Yeah, umm, not surprising at the least, the world went gone into madness ages ago.
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Sex is healthy so is masturbation. Though people make it seem like a joke there are many issues with not having sex or not masturbating.
Males;
Blue Balls
Increase of sensitivity
Decrease in sperm count
Females;
Less chances of impregnation
Irritability
Lose Pelvic muscles
These are all real, not made up.
- 24 Nov. 2009 02:37am #19
Wth? wow man, my virginity is dangerous to my health! lol i so cant wait to use that on my next boyfriend JK=)
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- 24 Nov. 2009 02:50am #21
pshhhh ruin my moment wont yah )=
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- 24 Nov. 2009 02:56am #23
Lol ill keep that in mind. Where were the fuck are you?
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- 25 Nov. 2009 06:34pm #25
Haha are men really feeling pushed into sex? Most I know would love to be fucked daily but haha w/e.
- 26 Nov. 2009 03:41pm #26
- 26 Nov. 2009 10:18pm #27
Is this a bad thing? lol jk