The Last 30 Days: The Events

[Souleater]

July 31, 2012: Return from deployment; goes home, hugs girlfriend and her daughter; goes out to dinner
August 1, 2012: Girlfriend hangs out with a new guy friend, I don't mind as long as he is gone by later; he doesn't leave until midnight
August 13, 2012: Girlfriend hangs out with same friend, I don't mind as long as he is gone by later and we can spend the night together; he leaves, comes back and hour later and doesn't leave until midnight.
August 14, 2012: Same as the 13th
August 15 2012: Same as the 13th
August 16, 2012: He shows up and I tell my girlfriend that I don't want him here, that we don't have any time together and I just want a night to ourselves. He leaves, she doesn't talk to me all night.
August 17, 2012: My girlfriend goes into the hospital, I spend all night with her; the second i leave her new guy friend shows up and stays all day, never leaving.
August 18-27: Same thing.
August 28, 2012: They send messages back and forth and she doesn't talk to me at all, blames it on me being on the computer
August 29, 2012: Her guy friend comes over and she takes her daughter and goes to the park with him all day.
August 30, 2012: I snap and tell her that he is only trying to get inbetween us and make me look bad; she defendes him till I finally give up on the argument
August 31, 2012: We fight again about her guy friend who she spends 2 hours 14 minutes on the porch talking to as I try to make dinner for her and I to have a slightly romantic dinner at home. She talks until well after I'm done and then tells me she isn't hungry anymore; we take her daughter to the hospital because of severe pain in her stomach; she stays at the hospital with her guy friend all night and all day the next day while I'm at work.
September 6, 2012: I get off of work and text her before I leave base that I just want a night where it's us and only us. Just a chance to help us reconnect with each other after being apart for 7 months, she says fine lets do it. I get home and she is hanging out with her friend already. He doesn't leave and they basically throw a party on the lawn in front of my apartment. I get severely pissed and tell her "All I wanted was a fucking day where we can be like we used to, just one fucking day where we can lay on the couch and I can hold you and we can just relax, and you decide to throw a fucking party and completely ignore me."
She says, "Why don't you act 21 for once? You don't have to be in here always running errands and being so fucking boring."
To which I said, "I'm not a fucking child, taking part in some sophomoric actions like those fuck-tards is not part of my plan. I'm acting like a responsible adult, and the only reason I'm doing all of this is because you are doing none of it. So just go enjoy your friends while I clean the house."
"FINE!" she said walking out of the house.
We get into another argument and she decides to tell me I'm a psychopath and that she wants out. I try to sit her down to talk and she yells at me to get out of my way. She grabs my gun and tries to go outside, I rip it out of her hands, and throw it on the couch. She packs and leaves with her new guy friend. I text her that night saying that I love her and I just want to talk to her. I text her a few hours ago wishing her luck with her appointment. She texts me back, Don't ever contact me again.

I come home with glass everywhere, picture frames broken, jars smashed, a back window punched in, in one of the rooms and my Xbox 360, gone.

tl;dr
My bitch of an ex-girlfriend cheated on me, broke a fuckton of my stuff, and robbed me of my Xbox. All of this after I spend 7 months fighting in Afghanistan.

[323]

Dude.
I.
Want.
To.
Stab.
Your.
Girlfriend.

She sounds like a complete bitch-ass whore. And a fucking cuntbag too, for breaking all your stuff. What a fucking bitch.

[The Unintelligible]

lollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll llllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll lll. I'm sorry, I laughed.

Sorry for your loss man, although it isn't really much of a loss.

[Souleater]

lollllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll llllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll lll. I'm sorry, I laughed.

Sorry for your loss man, although it isn't really much of a loss.

[2pac]

whatever you do man GET THE XBOX BACK.

[Omlett]

All you have to do is give the right person her information and BAM, 200 dildos in the mail, or bomb supplies, or credit card numbers, or... you know.

Sorry for your shit getting destroyed. Go to her house and steal your xbox back. or go to court and get money for all the damages, you will pretty much win no matter what and being a part of the military doesn't hurt your defense.

[DarkSoul]

Sorry for your loss bro, I hope things get better as time goes on, I don't like your ex girlfriend to much either, She should have atleast shared her feelings when you guys were alone at night, but seriously taking your gun and going outside with it? Dang... I'd just take the gun back, and tell her to get off my property, because that's already the 4th strike bro, but what you did was right. I still can't believe they robbed your house, you should report it or something...

[Souleater]

All you have to do is give the right person her information and BAM, 200 dildos in the mail, or bomb supplies, or credit card numbers, or... you know.

Sorry for your shit getting destroyed. Go to her house and steal your xbox back. or go to court and get money for all the damages, you will pretty much win no matter what and being a part of the military doesn't hurt your defense.

Trust me, if I could I would. `She sold my Xbox, she has no money.

[The Unintelligible]

You exercise considerable restraint to not have beaten her senseless by now.

Respect

[CL0V3R]

Call the cops and file chargers of destruction of property.
No seriously don't take this lightly. Don't let it go. Call the cops ASAP.
Give them as much detail as possible while remaining calm.
REALLY DO IT. I can't stand when people like her get away from those things.
Also say she stole your Xbox. Get her on charges of burglary.
Sounds over the top, but you could and should go for it.


I'm seriously sorry about that. Who the fuck pulls that shit?
Just a stupid child, you're too good for her dude.
And sounds like she's the one who needs to grow the fuck up.

[Souleater]

Call the cops and file chargers of destruction of property.
No seriously don't take this lightly. Don't let it go. Call the cops ASAP.
Give them as much detail as possible while remaining calm.
REALLY DO IT. I can't stand when people like her get away from those things.
Also say she stole your Xbox. Get her on charges of burglary.
Sounds over the top, but you could and should go for it.


I'm seriously sorry about that. Who the fuck pulls that shit?
Just a stupid child, you're too good for her dude.
And sounds like she's the one who needs to grow the fuck up.

Downside, since we were living together, she was on the leash. So I can't get her on breaking in, and the Xbox was a family gift, so there's nothing I can do. The most I can do is get her on breaking dollar store frames, and a few pickle jars. Not worth the trouble.

But she's out of my life now, and I'm open to new things and all that other mushy stuff.

[CL0V3R]

Downside, since we were living together, she was on the leash. So I can't get her on breaking in, and the Xbox was a family gift, so there's nothing I can do. The most I can do is get her on breaking dollar store frames, and a few pickle jars. Not worth the trouble.

But she's out of my life now, and I'm open to new things and all that other mushy stuff.

Actually even if you were living together you can still get her on both of those things.
I dunno man it's good that she's out of your life but uncool she gets away with something like this.
I don't understand childish women.
:/

[Drakonid]

Downside, since we were living together, she was on the leash. So I can't get her on breaking in, and the Xbox was a family gift, so there's nothing I can do. The most I can do is get her on breaking dollar store frames, and a few pickle jars. Not worth the trouble.

But she's out of my life now, and I'm open to new things and all that other mushy stuff.

It is, even if it is just to show you're seriously pissed.

[CL0V3R]

It is, even if it is just to show you're seriously pissed.

I'm going to have to agree with Draky.

[Drakonid]

Also, how come no one has said this yet: BITCHES BE CRAZY

[Souleater]

Fuck it dude. It's really not worth it. I don't have the time or patience to deal with this shit. I'm just going to keep going and try to find what every man wants eventually, the grande amour.

[C0FFINCASE]

I'm sorry mate. Lame stuff on her end. Though if she's flying off the handle like that you'll be better off without her.
You sure you don't want to go after her? She had a gun. That's prison time. Marley holding a gun or referencing having a gun in a confrontation is enough to get a conviction.

[CL0V3R]

Well if you don't feel emotionally up for it don't.

[Drakonid]

I'm sorry mate. Lame stuff on her end. Though if she's flying off the handle like that you'll be better off without her.
You sure you don't want to go after her? She had a gun. That's prison time. Marley holding a gun or referencing having a gun in a confrontation is enough to get a conviction.

He said she said.

[C0FFINCASE]

He said she said.

*Hearsay

Her finger prints on the gun.
*Physical evidence

Well if you don't feel emotionally up for it don't.

This.
My mom's ex stole a bunch of her stuff but he was such a douche it wasn't worth dealing with him.

[Souleater]

The gun was mine, and is only mine. She, by the state of California is not allowed to even hold a gun, it's a felony or something. But it is literally not worth it.

[The Unintelligible]

But it is literally not worth it.

Am I the only one in this thread that agrees with this? Let the chick be. The law does not have to be involved to exact revenge.

[Omlett]

Am I the only one in this thread that agrees with this? Let the chick be. The law does not have to be involved to exact revenge.

What you say is true young Unintelligible (ha starwars ref kind of not really) You need to pay someone to swat her or send her a bunch of carded Louis Vuitton hand bags.

[The Unintelligible]

What you say is true young Unintelligible (ha starwars ref kind of not really) You need to pay someone to swat her or send her a bunch of carded Louis Vuitton hand bags.

[Souleater]

What you say is true young Unintelligible (ha starwars ref kind of not really) You need to pay someone to swat her or send her a bunch of carded Louis Vuitton hand bags.

Wouldn't do anything. It's not worth my time. I supported her for everything, financially, emotionally, physically. I spent 2 weeks sleeping on chairs and window sills to stay by her side in the hospital, less than a week after I came home from Afghanistan.

I'm moving on, but I needed a place to vent, and I want to thank anyone that has posted in this thread so far. 5 years and the members of LG can still amaze me.

[The Unintelligible]

bawww. my image broke.

[Drakonid]

*Hearsay

Her finger prints on the gun.
*Physical evidence

I know what hearsay is, I meant it was his word against hers

[The Unintelligible]

Hearsay is a pretty funny word

[Stormie]

Only from what you've written I assume the girl was feeling insecure and suffered from low self esteem because you took care of her in everyway, especially financially. She probably was biting the hand that feeds, so to speak by lashing out on you. It probably affects her more because she has a child and may feel like she's not the one providing for her.

tl;dr - Bitch got daddy issues, forgetaboutit.

[323]

Hey, question. What's her name/address or something? I want to have fun with her. I won't mention anything about you, or this thread or anything. Just like pizza bombing, maybe SWAT-ting if I save up some money, or just scheduling her a ton of appointments all at the same time so like 50 businessmen show up at her house, then calling all the news stations and saying something huge is going down and they'll see a ton of people and cars there. Then, you call the police and say someone got shot and there's a gun battle going down, then you call the fire department and say there's a fire there. Then, watch lulz ensue.

It's called "ruin life tactics" or "revenge tactics", if you've heard of either.

[The Unintelligible]

Hey, question. What's her name/address or something? I want to have fun with her. I won't mention anything about you, or this thread or anything. Just like pizza bombing, maybe SWAT-ting if I save up some money, or just scheduling her a ton of appointments all at the same time so like 50 businessmen show up at her house, then calling all the news stations and saying something huge is going down and they'll see a ton of people and cars there. Then, you call the police and say someone got shot and there's a gun battle going down, then you call the fire department and say there's a fire there. Then, watch lulz ensue.

It's called "ruin life tactics" or "revenge tactics", if you've heard of either.

None of those things are plausible. I would drop you my address/name to prove a point, but it really isn't worth it. "Ruin life tactics" or how ever you want to address it primarily consists of an array of harassment/doxing/exposé/humiliating/etc.

No offense but let's be real here. And either way, I'm pretty sure he already said it isn't worth it about a million times now.

[CL0V3R]

Hey, question. What's her name/address or something? I want to have fun with her. I won't mention anything about you, or this thread or anything. Just like pizza bombing, maybe SWAT-ting if I save up some money, or just scheduling her a ton of appointments all at the same time so like 50 businessmen show up at her house, then calling all the news stations and saying something huge is going down and they'll see a ton of people and cars there. Then, you call the police and say someone got shot and there's a gun battle going down, then you call the fire department and say there's a fire there. Then, watch lulz ensue.

It's called "ruin life tactics" or "revenge tactics", if you've heard of either.

I'm pretty sure this would make things harder for the both of them. You've got to consider even if she's a horrid bitch it still hurts and he may still care about her one way or another. Feeling it's best for both of them if she's out of his life. (Which I agree with.) I don't think he'd really want to just give out that information even if it never came back to him. One way or another she'd probably pin it on him being vindictive anyways regardless of who does it.

[PrincessFluttershy]

Someday I hope she's shipped off to some hell-hole in afghanistan.

That'll learn em. You'll be okay Soul, I find the messier the break up, the better you can move on with your life. Chicks dig military men. You'll be able to find someone who's not missing 50% of their fucking brain because of too much booze, and next time it'll be someone who will be able to respect a relationship, not some kiddie bullshit where she's just looking to fulfill lust. As my saying goes, being hedonistic with no money to spend is against all common sense.

/patpat Soul.

Look on the bright side, I've noticed lately there is a world filled with beautiful girls The good ones are just always taken /insertFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUfo reveraloneimage

[The Unintelligible]

That'll learn em.

u rusty bro

[CL0V3R]

Someday I hope she's shipped off to some hell-hole in afghanistan.

That'll learn em. You'll be okay Soul, I find the messier the break up, the better you can move on with your life. Chicks dig military men. You'll be able to find someone who's not missing 50% of their fucking brain because of too much booze, and next time it'll be someone who will be able to respect a relationship, not some kiddie bullshit where she's just looking to fulfill lust. As my saying goes, being hedonistic with no money to spend is against all common sense.

/patpat Soul.

Look on the bright side, I've noticed lately there is a world filled with beautiful girls The good ones are just always taken /insertFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUfo reveraloneimage

+ 1 reps

[PrincessFluttershy]

u rusty bro

I know you're actually secretly admiring it

+ 1 reps

+1 Kawaiidesudesudesuuuuuuuu

[Souleater]

Is it ironic that a good, happy thread will never have more than a few posts, but my thread of heart break has almost 40 posts. lulz

[The Unintelligible]

Negativity is more controversial than positivity. Im not very surprised.

[Beyoncé]

And this is why you should just date men

[Souleater]

And this is why you should just date men

Good try, but I think I will stick tmen.