What do I do?

So here's my situation;
Last week, my friend Chelsea said she wanted to go hiking. She lives in mass. and I live in Maine. I told her I'd love to go hiking with her but i have no way to get to mass. Then she says she'll gladly come to Maine to go hiking. She just needs a time and place, so we agreed on Sunday (Tomorrow).
So sunday we'd go camping, eat, chill, then she'd stay here for the night and go back to Mass on monday.

But I don't know when she's coming over, she doesn't have my address, and I've been trying to call her for the last week, but I can't get ahold of her. I just got ahold of her, but I was only on the phone with her for maybe 12 seconds before she hung up. At least I think. She was disguising her voice, but she's a really fun type of person so idk if she'd casually do that or not to be funny, or if she's ignoring me. now her phone is off, and she keeps signing off Facebook when I try messaging her.

What do I do?

And for the sake of discussion, have you ever been stood up before?

She's a man. Keep a baseball bat at your door or call Chris Hansen.

And no.

I think you were just stood up Raivu

Sorry to say it.

I think you should just stop trying.

Coming from a girls stand point, she probably was really interested at first but when it got closer to the date she probably freaked and changed her mind.
So yea unless she contacts you tomorrow, I'm pretty sure she stood you up.
Sorry Joe.

TEMPTii wrote:

She's a man. Keep a baseball bat at your door or call Chris Hansen.

And no.

xD No, I know she's not, I've met her personally at college.
@Cl03y: She comes to Maine to go hiking all the time though, and with her friends. Her and I are good friends, and she's one of the giddiest happy-go-lucky carefree girls I know so I don't know why she'd freak about it.

Maybe she has something else she wants to do but doesn't want to feel bad by breaking it off with you?
So that's why she's avoiding phone calls?

Just keep trying to contact her and find out what's up.

I've never been stood up on anything but phone calls.

me i'd give up and hope that next time you didn't get stood up


and I haven't been stood up before =/

Just keep trying to contact her, at least. She's ignoring you because she wants nothing to do with the trip now.

Girls are freakin' nuts man. Don't try to understand. You just have to take it in stride and let it ride.
She'll call you eventually. People tend to blo off shit they set up on the internet because its not socially binding or whatever.

CL0V3R wrote:

Maybe she has something else she wants to do but doesn't want to feel bad by breaking it off with you?
So that's why she's avoiding phone calls?

its so funny how people think that is the better thing to do

Maybe something is wrong and she doesn't know how to tell you or cant tell you. I would say to let it be for now and not contact her for a bit. When she's ready to hang out or talk she will call you, but constantly calling or trying to talk to her online may not be the best thing to do now.

C0FFINCASE wrote:

Girls are freakin' nuts man. Don't try to understand. You just have to take it in stride and let it ride.
She'll call you eventually. People tend to blo off shit they set up on the internet because its not socially binding or whatever.

lol we set it up in person, that's the thing.

Is this a friend you know irl, or an online friend.

poor dude i hope yoou feel better

Read the thread Ash.
"We set it up in person."

Anyway, any luck contacting her yet Raivu?

yeah, I posted that before I read that.


Anyways, she seems like some immature psycho bitch if she has been ignoring you after her initially being the one to set this whole thing up.
it might have been her crazy mind making you anticipate this event and shes probably laughing at the fact that she stood you up.
If you called and she attempted to disguise her voice, not only is that childish and you should stear clear, but its clear she also doesn't want to talk to you, so I would just move on.

run for you life

Introvert wrote:

Read the thread Ash.
"We set it up in person."

Anyway, any luck contacting her yet Raivu?

No, I tried calling her once yesterday but still no answer so I'm just going to stop and let her get to me.

lol @ ash: I sort of think the same thing, but I don't want to jump to conclusions. She's an awesome friend.

You were stood up probably

Raivu is she on any kind of medication? (Anti depressants, anxiety/ lithium "crazy pills"
I know that first hand if the doctors change your meds on you or something it can fuck you up and make
you act not like yourself. Perhaps its the case?

Ash wrote:

Raivu is she on any kind of medication? (Anti depressants, anxiety/ lithium "crazy pills"
I know that first hand if the doctors change your meds on you or something it can fuck you up and make
you act not like yourself. Perhaps its the case?

nah she isn't. She's just a normal fun girl. Its way done now and she still won't talk to me so whatever. I'll just let her come to me.
but you're right, I never thought of that

Sorry man, If she doesn't eventually call you back than shell eventually feel like an asshole.