I might be going to prison -_-

So. This 14 year old asked me out last week. (I'm 20 in November). I told her "no". So she started a rumor about me sexing her up, out of anger. The stupid part is EVERYBODY BELIEVES HER! All of my friends graduated last year, so nobody knows me well enough to know I wouldn't do that.

So this is all pissing me off quite a great deal. What should I do?

Pray that she doesn't go to the feds.

If she isn't a whore though, she might still be a virgin, with hymen intact. Then, her argument will be invalid, and she has to go through her remaining three years of highschool as a known liar. Profit.

Well all you have to do is manage to have reasonable doubt. Like she's gonna make up a story as long as you were not where she says at the time she says and someone else know that and will testify then this isn't going any where. There is no evidence.

lie detector test ftw!

Also you can sue her for destroying your name.

How did you get yourself in a situation where a 14-year-old would be asking you out?

I know, right Rundeer?

And dude, tell the court how it happened. Where you were at, what happened and whatnot. Get your alibis, etc. Then, if you win the case...counter-sue her and her family for defamation of character. Also, get a polygraph test and whatnot.

If you do end up going to jail punch the bitch in the face first, so this way you go for doing something worth while :/

I doubt you will though, you should bring it to her parents or something....
Kinda the logical thing to do in this situation.

Tatsuo wrote:

I know, right Rundeer?

And dude, tell the court how it happened. Where you were at, what happened and whatnot. Get your alibis, etc. Then, if you win the case...counter-sue her and her family for defamation of character. Also, get a polygraph test and whatnot.

I have done that before. The counter-sue method really works, plus they end up becoming a douche.

Hope that she doesn't say anything to someone with authority. Not much you can do in that situation.

Raivu, that sucks, but I wouldn't worry about it too much, worse comes trse, you go to court and with no evidence, she loses.

Should've pulled out.

OnTopic: This happened to a friend of mine. If she is a REALLY good faker, she can get your ass thrown in jail for a good time.

~Fluxo

Rundeer wrote:

How did you get yourself in a situation where a 14-year-old would be asking you out?

I'm a senior in high school. She's a freshman. We're kind of in the same place 6 hours a day.

If the cops come talk to you I can not stress this enough, REFUSE to talk to them with out lawyer. One of the stupidest things you can do is talk to them.
It's so much easier to pin you with something, even if you didn't do anything.

chowchig wrote:

lie detector test ftw!

Also you can sue her for destroying your name.

Lie detectors are admissible in court. In other words they don't count for any thing.
@ Raivu you really have rries because no one will corroborate her story, most likely she changes it ever time she tells it. If she got to authorities they will ask you your story which will be nothing happened. They will ask her, she will have story, they will interview people, they will ask for your story again which will stay the same, then they will go ask her again and her story will chnage because its made up bull, and they will call bull.
Most likely nothing happens especial since you go to school together and that nullifies things.

C0FFINCASE wrote:

Lie detectors are admissible in court. In other words they don't count for any thing.
@ Raivu you really have rries because no one will corroborate her story, most likely she changes it ever time she tells it. If she got to authorities they will ask you your story which will be nothing happened. They will ask her, she will have story, they will interview people, they will ask for your story again which will stay the same, then they will go ask her again and her story will chnage because its made up bull, and they will call bull.
Most likely nothing happens especial since you go to school together and that nullifies things.

Why aren't lie detectors allowed, not accurate?

Raivu wrote:

I'm a senior in high school. She's a freshman. We're kind of in the same place 6 hours a day.

Sorry, we don't have any 20-year-olds in our school.

Elirocks wrote:

If you do end up going to jail punch the bitch in the face first, so this way you go for doing something worth while :/

That's the worst possible thing you could do. :p

Scrubs wrote:

Why aren't lie detectors allowed, not accurate?

You can take one an they can say you passed or fail but they won't use them for evidence because they test for stress really. It assumes the you'll only be stressed if you lie but if your nervous about the test, have a fever, irregular heart beat, sneeze, have a bad day, or cough you can make it go positive for a lie. Its also not that hard to control yourself and trick them.

C0FFINCASE wrote:

You can take one an they can say you passed or fail but they won't use them for evidence because they test for stress really. It assumes the you'll only be stressed if you lie but if your nervous about the test, have a fever, irregular heart beat, sneeze, have a bad day, or cough you can make it go positive for a lie. Its also not that hard to control yourself and trick them.

Only a fool would take a polygraph as 100% fact. The only times I've seen them used in court was after a person failed several times.

Rundeer wrote:

Sorry, we don't have any 20-year-olds in our school.

November 27th, 1990. Do the math. Keep in mind I had to stay back in 7th grade due to a minor learning disorder due to craniosynostosis.

Well if everyone believes her, then you may very well be in for a bad time while you are at school. As far as anyone really knows, she is lying. and if she tries to bring charges against you, ask the police for a polygraph, and for proof of the crime.

no proof, no crime.

She probably wont go to the popo. Its highschool it happens. Drama drama drama. And even if she does, she has no proof. You win

~Souleater~ wrote:

Well if everyone believes her, then you may very well be in for a bad time while you are at school. As far as anyone really knows, she is lying. and if she tries to bring charges against you, ask the police for a polygraph, and for proof of the crime.

no proof, no crime.

I would go with Souleater
Because if she sue you then you can ask proof. IF she has ANY proof to show

Areox2 wrote:

Pray that she doesn't go to the feds.

If she isn't a whore though, she might still be a virgin, with hymen intact. Then, her argument will be invalid, and she has to go through her remaining three years of highschool as a known liar. Profit.

This.
Its simple
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Statitory rape is a very serious matter.
Whether you actually did anything or not, unless you have explicit proof that you did otherwise, cops are going to believe her.

Areox2 wrote:

Pray that she doesn't go to the feds.

If she isn't a whore though, she might still be a virgin, with hymen intact. Then, her argument will be invalid, and she has to go through her remaining three years of highschool as a known liar. Profit.

You know, a hymen doesn't always count as a sign of a woman's virginity. One can damage their hymen through strenuous activities such as gymnastics OR if one had an accident; by accidentally hitting their vaggies against objects.

~Souleater~ wrote:

Well if everyone believes her, then you may very well be in for a bad time while you are at school. As far as anyone really knows, she is lying. and if she tries to bring charges against you, ask the police for a polygraph, and for proof of the crime.

no proof, no crime.

And if I have no proof that I DIDNT do it?

I thought they had people to check if you had done something like that

Enjoy your prison rape. See you in 10 years pedophile.

Confide wrote:

Enjoy your prison rape. See you in 10 years pedophile.

wow. um....ok. Try to actually finish reading and comprehending the first post before jumping to conclusion.

Confide wrote:

Enjoy your prison rape. See you in 10 years pedophile.

You sir, have no heart.

That was spam, completely unnecessary and worthless post. >_<

@raivu

So, did you even hang out with her? have any type of relationship status with her?

Raivu wrote:

And if I have no proof that I DIDNT do it?

Innocent till proven guilty. The defense doesn't have to prove anything.
You don't have to prove anything, she does, and she can't.

Actually, we learned this just last year in Human Sexuality class. Sexual assault is the only law (or one of only two laws) where you're guilty until proven innocent.

Sucks. Just hope she doesn't take it to court or you're fucked.

@Raivu: Well if you have had no relationship with her at all, it was shown that she asked you out and you denied her advances, your friends know the kind of guy that you are, and there is no proof of sexual intercourse, you can't really get into trouble.

Her entire case would be hear-say and any evidence would be circumstantial at the very best. And if she says she has a condom with your fluid in it, that is easily solved since your DNA wouldnt match that DNA, and if at any time she states that she has evidence, then pull the "pics or it didnt happen" card. Cops cant take only her word and not believe you, that is retarded, because she is a 14 year old in high school, more often than not, she is lying. Bust her on it.

And second of all, if you were her first time, then she should be able to tell intimate details about you and your body, and that is obviously easily provable to the negative, but in your favor.

Lets face it, liars dont think about it this deeply, and that is why liars get caught. And trust me she will get caught in her lie. Eventually.

GAMEchief wrote:

Actually, we learned this just last year in Human Sexuality class. Sexual assault is the only law (or one of only two laws) where you're guilty until proven innocent.

Sucks. Just hope she doesn't take it to court or you're fucked.

Unfortunately GAMEChief is right. you will always be assumed as guilty, very rarely is the accused believed to be innocent off the back.

Bman wrote:

You sir, have no heart.

That was spam, completely unnecessary and worthless post. >_<

@raivu

So, did you even hang out with her? have any type of relationship status with her?

She's a my friend's little sister (my friend graduated last year, and her sister is a freshman this year), but we never really hang out or see each other o.<

@GAMEchief: D;!! You'd think that by sleeping with you, you'd at least share some GOOD news.

Raivu wrote:

And if I have no proof that I DIDNT do it?

GAMEchief wrote:

Actually, we learned this just last year in Human Sexuality class. Sexual assault is the only law (or one of only two laws) where you're guilty until proven innocent.

Sucks. Just hope she doesn't take it to court or you're fucked.

Gamechief is right, unfortunately. The truth is, they are going to be MUCH more biased towards the chick's side of the story, no matter how "fair" the legal system is supposed to be. There are few things that people hate more than pedophiles. (I'm not saying you are one :p)

If anyways ur goin in jail, why not fcuk her up in real? lol

Just call out for a DNA sample, and it will be all clear.

You better hope she cant get a good lawyer

If she doesn't have evidence, you should be alright

iAKA wrote:

If anyways ur goin in jail, why not fcuk her up in real? lol

Just call out for a DNA sample, and it will be all clear.

Explain to me how this "DNA sample" would work, you fool. They're not having a baby.

Rundeer wrote:

Explain to me how this "DNA sample" would work, you fool. They're not having a baby.

I literally Lol'd out loud at this.

I suggest you confront the parents, she'll go running and hide in her closet or something :/

Confronted the parents. talked to them about it. I'm good friends with her older sister so luckily I had an inside source talking her parents into believing me.