Controlling ?

So my boyfriend is doing his whole game club things tomorrow (he runs a club at the high school he works at playing Warhammer) anways, tomorrow is their "end of the year" tournament. 10 hours of it. from 8am to 8pm. Then afterwards some of his ex-students are supposed to go back to his apartment with a few of his old college buddies and play some other games... am I being controlling by saying that I really am not looking forward to tomorrow because that mean I wont be able to talk to him?

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Controlling girl friends/boyfriends
Warhammer ?

Angel wrote:

So my boyfriend is doing his whole game club things tomorrow (he runs a club at the high school he works at playing Warhammer) anways, tomorrow is their "end of the year" tournament. 10 hours of it. from 8am to 8pm. Then afterwards some of his ex-students are supposed to go back to his apartment with a few of his old college buddies and play some other games... am I being controlling by saying that I really am not looking forward to tomorrow because that mean I wont be able to talk to him?

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Controlling girl friends/boyfriends
Warhammer ?

That's 12 hours of gaming, not 10.
Not that controlling, but let him play. :/
Us guys need our games, it's one day without him, go out with your friends.

I don't think you're being controlling, but maybe just a little annoying, but it's understandable, just think that it's one day. It's obviously something he love to do. Just go with the flow.

I tend to push away controlling people.

Your Not controlling.
He should be able to do what he wants,
And so should you.

Gina wrote:

Your Not controlling.
He should be able to do what he wants,
And so should you.

Oh I don't mind him doing it and what not. It's just the "no girls" thing >> makes me mad lol

i'm not gonna lie that sounds realllly lame lol but nah i mean you should be able to spend some time with him. make a compromise. he gets 12 hours with them, you should get night time to talk to him atleast

Nah thats not controlling at all. Controlling would be telling him he cant do his game thing and completely objecting to it. trust me guys hate that! my last girlfriend did that and it defiantly didn't work out she wouldent let me play an hour of rockband with my friends one night. Trust me as long as your not like that your fine

Tobi wrote:

Nah thats not controlling at all. Controlling would be telling him he cant do his game thing and completely objecting to it. trust me guys hate that! my last girlfriend did that and it defiantly didn't work out she wouldent let me play an hour of rockband with my friends one night. Trust me as long as your not like that your fine

I mean... Do I want him to not do it? No. because he's done it for years.
Do I wish it was shorter? Yes. because I dont get to talk to him at all tomorrow since he's not much of a "texter"

but I'm not the type of girl to say, NO i forbid you from doing "_____________"