Youtube video sizes

I dunno if you guys can control it, but on the embedded code for a youtube video, if you set the width to 30 and the height to 25 it makes it just the little play button.
If you guys can somehow make a little button that when you press "video" when you're editing a thread or something that you can set it to that?

Like, have two options:

Big (640 x 385) or Small (30 x 25)

....or not...

Yeah um... Not that many people post videos, and if they do, why would you want the smaller?...

k, here's why.

If it's just a song, then whats the point of the entire video?
+ if the size is smaller, youtube automatically upps the quality, and it makes it load so much faster seeing as it only has trry about hte one button right.