I tried, I succeeded, and crashed and burned like a plane.
I have been liking this girl for like, 3 months. And I decided to finally ask her out to the movies. IT goes great, then she starts talking about how she could never be in a relation ship because she feels like someone always does something to hurt her, and that she would never want someone to do that again. So now I am here, sitting with the girl I like and not being able to express the way I feel for her because she doesn't think I like her/ want her for sex. In all honesty I don't know what I could do personally because I am just so nice to girls.
TL
R Gets girl, then girl stops because she has anxiety.
She still has feelings for her ex clearly LOL
Girls are awful.
Guys are where it's at now.
It's 2013.
C'mon.
Voluntarily put yourself in the friendzone if you /reaallyy/ like her.
Don't be too overly friendly, don't be touchy-feely.
Just be kind to her, be there when she needs you.
Casual chats, y'know? Just to hang out.
Works if she likes watching movies.
You can be her movie buddy or something.
Like.
I love watching movies in theatres, but sometimes I don't have anyone to go with.
And going alone is one of the saddest/lonely/GIRLYOUCRAICRAI things ever.
Unless you're a strong independant woman who gives no poops, or a manly man who's watching action movies because manly.
Or something like that.
If you become good casual friends, enough to go hang out and get a meal together sometime, don't insist on paying.
Because things. Always have enough to pay for both if she can't, but it'll probably make her feel safer if you both just halfsies.
S'kay bro.