Advice?

So there is this girl in my school that i like and she obviously likes me (wont get into that long story) and she is so fucking boring most of the time when we text and real life. She is boring in the way that she doesnt know how to hold a conversation. Can anyone give me some advice on how to like hold a convo with a girl that is so boring lol?

No advice, same girls like that at my school.

Omlett wrote:

No advice, same girls like that at my school.

Well some girls are like that and some arent but this one i like so im not gonna give up on her.

While she's talking, nod, agree, and laugh a little bit when you indicate she's saying something funny.
If she makes a point, agree with it, unless you're actually paying attention and you don't agree.
Then tell her why you disagree, and bam. good conversation.

Just don't make it too obvioius you're not paying attention. Even ask her to go back every now and then on something she said and show some interest in it.

Raivu wrote:

While she's talking, nod, agree, and laugh a little bit when you indicate she's saying something funny.
If she makes a point, agree with it, unless you're actually paying attention and you don't agree.
Then tell her why you disagree, and bam. good conversation.

Just don't make it too obvioius you're not paying attention. Even ask her to go back every now and then on something she said and show some interest in it.

I was waiting for you
yeah i know all that but she is the boring type which will answer a question with like yes or no or in text "lol" and i have to think of shit to say to keep the convo going.

Taz wrote:

I was waiting for you
yeah i know all that but she is the boring type which will answer a question with like yes or no or in text "lol" and i have to think of shit to say to keep the convo going.

What makes you think you have to?
And if she's like that, why would you want that kind of relationship?
It'll always be boring, no contact, never doing anything, etc.
I bet even during Sex she'll be looser than a turtleneck and twice as grubby because she'd just lay there and take it whenever/wherever and yawn at you here and there

Raivu wrote:

What makes you think you have to?
And if she's like that, why would you want that kind of relationship?
It'll always be boring, no contact, never doing anything, etc.
I bet even during Sex she'll be looser than a turtleneck and twice as grubby because she'd just lay there and take it whenever/wherever and yawn at you here and there

Lool i plead the 5th.

Taz wrote:

I was waiting for you
yeah i know all that but she is the boring type which will answer a question with like yes or no or in text "lol" and i have to think of shit to say to keep the convo going.

How do you know that you're not the one boring her? >.>

Ask her what she wants to do or talk about

Dummy!! wrote:

How do you know that you're not the one boring her? >.>

I always thought about that and most of my friends say shes boring.

Taz wrote:

I always thought about that and most of my friends say shes boring.

If she's that into you she wont be bored with you around - I think...

Say jokes from time to time. If she laughs then go for a question that would require a long answer. lol

Snow-kun wrote:

If she's that into you she wont be bored with you around - I think...

I dont know how to explain this by typing lol you guys just have to see it in person.
H3 i always say jokes and ask questions.

What is she like? Interests? Hobbies? Friends?

Does she expand her answer? Like if you ask her where she lives she wouldn't just tell you her address she also tell you when did they start living there or maybe explain the story behind why they moved there something like that.

Dont feel like answering all those questions to lazy
Also i forgot to add she always tells me to text her when i get home but then when i do its like she never wants to talk :/

Well at least she always wants to know where you are. That's a good start. Ask her why she wants you to text her when you get home.

Talk to her about Lady Gaga, and if she hates her, get rid of his crusty ass and spit in her face.

Lady Gaga wrote:

Talk to her about Lady Gaga, and if she hates her, get rid of his crusty ass and spit in her face.

No one hates gaga!

Taz wrote:

No one hates gaga!

I could see Madonna being bitter tbh

Honestly, it's about finding a personal connection. If you say she's a one-word-answer type of person and that bores you, you may be trying too hard to make something out of nothing. Next time you talk to her (preferably in person), engage her; ask her questions that can't be answered with "yes" or "no". Try to find common ground with her in different categories (music, movies, video games, hobbies, sports, fashion, beliefs, etc.). If her responses are limited to only a few things outside "yes" and no" and she becomes reluctant in sharing information about herself, chances are she's not going to fulfill you in the ways you're looking for.

Eebit wrote:

Honestly, it's about finding a personal connection. If you say she's a one-word-answer type of person and that bores you, you may be trying too hard to make something out of nothing. Next time you talk to her (preferably in person), engage her; ask her questions that can't be answered with "yes" or "no". Try to find common ground with her in different categories (music, movies, video games, hobbies, sports, fashion, beliefs, etc.). If her responses are limited to only a few things outside "yes" and no" and she becomes reluctant in sharing information about herself, chances are she's not going to fulfill you in the ways you're looking for.

Ill see on monday because i like talking to er in person more then text.