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CL0V3R wrote:

@Aleena: Are they? Probably huh. I don't know I don't relate to other women very well. I take it on a case by case basis though. People are people and are either dicks or cool regardless of gender.

I watch videos of attacks // murders all the time.
And when it comes tmen, Well. They are pretty fucking twisted.

^ I'm scared. ;_; I accidentally ended up watching a video of a dead person, it's a really mind-blowing experience and I couldn't get it out of my head for ages, I'm not very strong when it comes to sheet like that.

Jorsulree wrote:

Same really. I don't check women out either, I think it's rude even though my two friends right beside me are staring and it doesn't make the situation any less awkward. xD

I sometimes check out women I guess with out even realizing it.
Then my boyfriend tends to tease me like "Ooooh was laaaurrraaaa jussst cheeeeecking ouuuuut a giiiiiirl."
From there I proceed to gets flustered and blush while saying "No shut uuuup!".

@Kain: @-;-'--

@Aleena: I'm sure. I wonder how much of it is a product of some sort of trauma as a child.

CL0V3R wrote:

I sometimes check out women I guess with out even realizing it.
Then my boyfriend tends to tease me like "Ooooh was laaaurrraaaa jussst cheeeeecking ouuuuut a giiiiiirl."
From there I proceed to gets flustered and blush while saying "No shut uuuup!".

@Kain: @-;-'--

@Aleena: I'm sure. I wonder how much of it is a product of some sort of trauma as a child.

Lmao, I should totally check women out more, and make it obvious too.

Off topic: For like 2 days I've been trying to find a thread where I can actually start a stable conversation without waiting 4 hours for a reply but now I can't even keep up. XD

Oh Cloey, you so good to me<3

Jorsulree wrote:

Lmao, I should totally check women out more, and make it obvious too.

Off topic: For like 2 days I've been trying to find a thread where I can actually start a stable conversation without waiting 4 hours for a reply but now I can't even keep up. XD

I don't even know what would happen. Some of us really just don't notice when people check us out or flirt with us. It goes right over our heads. D:
Then there are those who think everyone wants in their pants. :/

@Kain: It's cause you're awesome bbycakes.

Jorsulree wrote:

^ I'm scared. ;_; I accidentally ended up watching a video of a dead person, it's a really mind-blowing experience and I couldn't get it out of my head for ages, I'm not very strong when it comes to sheet like that.

rofl, My first time seeing someone killed would be a video with the demands from alquida (fucking SP) where their reading some demands and shit and a us military guy is sitting there on the stage on his knees with his arms behind his back, then after he finishes reading, they all dive at him and hold him down while hes struggling, then they saw his head off with a kitchen knife. That was probably...2002-2003? Not sure...But after that I have always had a unique attraction to watching death, Everyone reacts differently and dies differently, but if they do die the same way, both react completely different, It is a very astounding phenomenon that I think should be looked into more (Though it could be from escaping electrical pulses from the spine / brain, but I dont know to be honest) Now I am pretty hardened to it, and look at it as more of a study.

CL0V3R wrote:

@Aleena: I'm sure. I wonder how much of it is a product of some sort of trauma as a child.

Neh, You show too much sympathy for females, I gave it up after discovering that 9 out 10 women who say they were raped, never even saw a penis in their life.

I've seen lots of penises!

Aleena wrote:

rofl, My first time seeing someone killed would be a video with the demands from alquida (fucking SP) where their reading some demands and shit and a us military guy is sitting there on the stage on his knees with his arms behind his back, then after he finishes reading, they all dive at him and hold him down while hes struggling, then they saw his head off with a kitchen knife. That was probably...2002-2003? Not sure...But after that I have always had a unique attraction to watching death, Everyone reacts differently and dies differently, but if they do die the same way, both react completely different, It is a very astounding phenomenon that I think should be looked into more (Though it could be from escaping electrical pulses from the spine / brain, but I dont know to be honest) Now I am pretty hardened to it, and look at it as more of a study.


Neh, You show too much sympathy for females, I gave it up after discovering that 9 out 10 women who say they were raped, never even saw a penis in their life.

That was also my first time watching someone get killed. Everyone kept playing it at school. I'm glad I saw it with the sound off.

It could be because I'm female.
Oh dear.
I wouldn't say 9 out of 10.
I know a lot of girls who've been raped/molested but they don't talk about it.
It's usually the ones who are suuuuper fucking vocal about it and bring it up in conversations that have nothing to do with the subject.
On an interesting side fact they say 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 guys are sexually molested before the age of eighteen.
It's sad that it happens to either gender.

CL0V3R wrote:

That was also my first time watching someone get killed. Everyone kept playing it at school. I'm glad I saw it with the sound off.

It could be because I'm female.
Oh dear.
I wouldn't say 9 out of 10.
I know a lot of girls who've been raped/molested but they don't talk about it.
It's usually the ones who are suuuuper fucking vocal about it and bring it up in conversations that have nothing to do with the subject.
On an interesting side fact they say 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 guys are sexually molested before the age of eighteen.
It's sad that it happens to either gender.

^If religion didnt exist, Alot less guyss would be encountering priests.
Sorry, Trying to lighten the mood rofl.

But yeah, Thats anothr way to look at it, Because even with anon reporting of rapes and such, Women dont usually report it because "their scared" but then they have no problem going "oh yeah I had sex like 3 times, 2 were rape and one was this guy with a huge ding-a-ling and a licenceplate that said king-dong on it, so who could say no? =3 mew"

*Sighs* Humans are so very strange...I dont think I will ever understand them.

Aleena wrote:

^If religion didnt exist, Alot less guyss would be encountering priests.
Sorry, Trying to lighten the mood rofl.

But yeah, Thats anothr way to look at it, Because even with anon reporting of rapes and such, Women dont usually report it because "their scared" but then they have no problem going "oh yeah I had sex like 3 times, 2 were rape and one was this guy with a huge ding-a-ling and a licenceplate that said king-dong on it, so who could say no? =3 mew"

*Sighs* Humans are so very strange...I dont think I will ever understand them.

I wouldn't really generalize everyone like that. I've actually met very few people who act like that. I think the reason those people stick out in the forefront of our minds are because it disgusts us. When in reality the reason we hear so much news on a certain subject, especially one like that is entertainment value. To be honest how interesting would it be to hear "Women raped, charges filed." Or would this be more interesting "Women fakes rape, admits it was to get attention." Which one is going to outrage you more? Which one are you more likely to read. It has a certain merit of publicity value.
I can understand being afraid to tell. It's because you think no one will believe. Trust me people will question the fuck out of you and even call you an out right liar. Especially when it comes to something they haven't heard or don't want to listen to.
I think a lot of girls who do react by being overly sexual probably had it happen at a young age. Maybe they felt devalued to a point where being damaged goods is all they could identify with. So they take on the persona of slut because they feel like that's all they're good for.
Now the women who say yes, have sex, then change their mind later and call it rape are horrible people who can't own up to their own deeds. :/

CL0V3R wrote:

I wouldn't really generalize everyone like that. I've actually met very few people who act like that. I think the reason those people stick out in the forefront of our minds are because it disgusts us. When in reality the reason we hear so much news on a certain subject, especially one like that is entertainment value. To be honest how interesting would it be to hear "Women raped, charges filed." Or would this be more interesting "Women fakes rape, admits it was to get attention." Which one is going to outrage you more? Which one are you more likely to read. It has a certain merit of publicity value.
I can understand being afraid to tell. It's because you think no one will believe. Trust me people will question the fuck out of you and even call you an out right liar. Especially when it comes to something they haven't heard or don't want to listen to.
I think a lot of girls who do react by being overly sexual probably had it happen at a young age. Maybe they felt devalued to a point where being damaged goods is all they could identify with. So they take on the persona of slut because they feel like that's all they're good for.
Now the women who say yes, have sex, then change their mind later and call it rape are horrible people who can't own up to their own deeds. :/

I have considered this a few times as the outlook of rape vs claim. And came to just stop listening to it entirely, Generally, Anyone who tells you they were raped and is Not in a relationship with you for family, Is crying for attention unless you happen to be a police officer and they need help.

I dont know if there is a fear of cops or what the deal is, but people need to get their shit together, Say Man up buttercup, And call the cops when they get raped instead of going around telling everyone BUT the police.

Long story short, if Anyone has told you they were raped, And were not family / interested in sex with you, Odds are, its for attention.

Aleena wrote:

I have considered this a few times as the outlook of rape vs claim. And came to just stop listening to it entirely, Generally, Anyone who tells you they were raped and is Not in a relationship with you for family, Is crying for attention unless you happen to be a police officer and they need help.

I dont know if there is a fear of cops or what the deal is, but people need to get their shit together, Say Man up buttercup, And call the cops when they get raped instead of going around telling everyone BUT the police.

Long story short, if Anyone has told you they were raped, And were not family / interested in sex with you, Odds are, its for attention.

That or the fact they trust me enough to tell me something. I tend to be the first person people come to with a problem. Then again some people are able to better deal with it than some others and they don't need that outlet. Everyone has a breaking point.
I also can understand it being brought up in a conversation if the topic has something to do with it.
Sometimes people don't have family or friends they can talk to so they have to resort to telling someone else.
Also not everyone can go to the police, what about if you're a child, or you don't want to get in trouble? Not ever one can tell their family either, especially if the person that raped or molested you is inside of the family. I think you're just a tad bit too harsh on others. It's one of those things that tend to be hard to understand unless you've gone through them yourself I'm assuming. In the event they do want attention or really want someone to listen, if it's truly happened, what's so wrong with that?
I can understand people trying to garner sympathy is annoying but I feel a lot of empathy for those who genuinely need someone to talk to.

Well that explains alot about me xD

CL0V3R wrote:

I don't even know what would happen. Some of us really just don't notice when people check us out or flirt with us. It goes right over our heads. D:
Then there are those who think everyone wants in their pants. :/

@Kain: It's cause you're awesome bbycakes.

I don't mean to act full of myself or anything but it's a little more difficult to get away with checking someone out when the girl is looking at me.

Wait..they showed someone dying at school? That's mental. I haven't seen it.

There was that one video, 3 guys 1 hammer or whatever the hell it was, I just couldn't watch it. I heard about it, I accidentally mentioned it in a conversation with my friend and she went and watched it, she ended up crying and logged out and didn't come back on for hours. (I really don't want to see it now)

Aleena wrote:

CNN has never heard of ADD or ADHD?

There is no way its as wide spread as it appears. Every other person you meet has one or the other and then bitches about the drugs and doesn't take them and then the people you meet without it are on the drugs. This sounds more plausible to me than ADD and/or ADHD. Not saying they're not real, just saying our parents generation didn't have these any where near the extent we do so...