A lot of people keep looking for sympathy when they get adopted into another family. Can't blame them, not all of us are made equal. By rights, some things which happen to us might be just enough to break a more sensitive type or just make them outright bitter at life. A little unhappiness is to be expected, but any more, especially if it causes trouble to the folk around you, needs looking at via retrospection BEFORE someone points it out in a less kind manner.