Sad Face!

[La Vie Cruelle]

I wouldn't say forever alone. I sort of hate that meme. Haha
Why don't you ask a girl then? Just find someone who looks upset about not having a V-day date and ask them.


@Jenny: You could always bring it up in casual conversation. Like "Oh my gosh I woke up to the most awesome thing." Or something.
I dunno. Haha

Nah, one of my tactics when things like this happens is to completely ignore it. He will eventually ask 'did you like them?' or something along the lines. The less attention I pay, the more they try to get my attention.

[Jah]

I think I've always hated valentines day whether I've had someone or not. It just makes me super freaking bleh.
This year will be one of those years were I know that feel. The feel of them single peoples.

The feel of freedom ?

[C0FFINCASE]

He sounds like he is just trying to act cool.

I treat the guys nice, and make them fall for me. Then, I get completely bored and move on. normally ends in this emotional shitstorm. I tell them in the beginning it's just a game to me, but they still end up falling. Sad part: I enjoy it.

You and every woman I've ever met.
Solution: Don't get played,make them feel like shit for it, hit and quit tell them to go to hell as soon as you notice the "pattern". You're all obvious about it. you start trying to be cute and nice and then don't actually put any effort into contacting us and just wait for us to call. (Its at this point you start ignoring her, guys, cause she only has two recourses: come after you and fall for you if you play it right or leave you alone.)
Relationships are a pain.Other person wants all your time, thanks to texting and facbook you end up in near constant contact, you're expected to have a plan daily, you need an excuse not to spend time with/talk to the other person, ect.

Also people have got to realize you don't need a relationship to having sex. Everyone wants to have sex and if you're not an ass about it and have some tact then everyone goes home happy. Just be upfront about what you're doing.
Sidenote: Ethan, be like Ryan. Nice guys finish last. Not joking, its a fact. being a sweet nice guy gets you nowhere. Tattoos, dark, edge, ect get you everywhere. Go against what is expected.

[Kain]

That feel when i hate women but want someone to talk to anyway.

Fuuuck. Bitchezzzz.

[CL0V3R]

Nah, one of my tactics when things like this happens is to completely ignore it. He will eventually ask 'did you like them?' or something along the lines. The less attention I pay, the more they try to get my attention.

Really? I'd wonder who it was. I'm too oblivious to think it'd be the first person I thought it was. Haha
Or if I really feel like I know who it is I confront them. xD

@Jah: Nah that feel where I'm like fuuuuck. I'm alone today with nothing to do and all the tv and the internet reminding me that my relationship derped.
I'm just glad I'm not in highschool. With all the girls that would be like. "So what did you get? I got this bear bigger than my body!"

[La Vie Cruelle]

You and every woman I've ever met.
Solution: Don't get played,make them feel like shit for it, hit and quit tell them to go to hell as soon as you notice the "pattern". You're all obvious about it. you start trying to be cute and nice and then don't actually put any effort into contacting us and just wait for us to call. (Its at this point you start ignoring her, guys, cause she only has two recourses: come after you and fall for you if you play it right or leave you alone.)
Relationships are a pain.Other person wants all your time, thanks to texting and facbook you end up in near constant contact, you're expected to have a plan daily, you need an excuse not to spend time with/talk to the other person, ect.

Also people have got to realize you don't need a relationship to having sex. Everyone wants to have sex and if you're not an ass about it and have some tact then everyone goes home happy. Just be upfront about what you're doing.
Sidenote: Ethan, be like Ryan. Nice guys finish last. Not joking, it a fact. being a sweet nice guy gets you nowhere. Tattoos, dark, edge, ect get you everywhere. Go against what is expected.

Casual sex! Who doesn't like fucking without strings?

[CL0V3R]

Sidenote: Ethan, be like Ryan. Nice guys finish last. Not joking, it a fact. being a sweet nice guy gets you nowhere. Tattoos, dark, edge, ect get you everywhere. Go against what is expected.

Bullshit. I'd refuse to date a guy who was purely a jack ass. If guy doesn't want to try, or wants to treat me like shit they should not expect me to treat them any better. I can't stand guys who put girls down or other people down. They make me angry. There are girls out there that are looking for a stable relationship. Just a lot of them don't make that effort or understand until they mature. I feel like you guys must be going after some really stupid women. Edit: Or women just looking for fun.

[La Vie Cruelle]

Bullshit. I'd refuse to date a guy who was purely a jack ass. If guy doesn't want to try, or wants to treat me like shit they should not expect me to treat them any better. I can't stand guys who put girls down or other people down. They make me angry. There are girls out there that are looking for a stable relationship. Just a lot of them don't make that effort or understand until they mature. I feel like you guys must be going after some really stupid women. Edit: Or women just looking for fun.

Guys who constantly bash women don't even get my attention, other then to make them miserable. Honestly my target men are respectable, playful, nice, and have common interests. Think I ever dated one huge assfuck, and that was the guy that turned me into a heartless fiend.

[CL0V3R]

Guys who constantly bash women don't even get my attention, other then to make them miserable. Honestly my target men are respectable, playful, nice, and have common interests. Think I ever dated one huge assfuck, and that was the guy that turned me into a heartless fiend.

I think for me personally I can't do the heartless fiend thing. I think after my best friend's suicide it really taught me to be honest with people. I feel like, at least for me, life is too short to play those kinds of games. Or leave something I really meant to say unsaid. I don't want to be the person responsible for another person's heart ache. I'm much more inclined to take an honest route. If I'm not interested, I'm not interested. Or if I feel like realistically it won't work, I'll tell someone. Idk I'm just that kind of person I guess. x___X;

[C0FFINCASE]

That feel when i hate women but want someone to talk to anyway.
What the internet isfor
Fuuuck. Bitchezzzz.

Casual sex! Who doesn't like fucking without strings?

Exactly

Bullshit. I'd refuse to date a guy who was purely a jack ass. If guy doesn't want to try, or wants to treat me like shit they should not expect me to treat them any better. I can't stand guys who put girls down or other people down. They make me angry. There are girls out there that are looking for a stable relationship. Just a lot of them don't make that effort or understand until they mature. I feel like you guys must be going after some really stupid women. Edit: Or women just looking for fun.

No, you don't get it. The idea isn't to bash women or be an ass. The idea is to exude confidence, be unpredictible, and avoid standard behavior to create intrest.
Vie draws dude in, dude responds by being a sappy idiot and acts predictable, Vie mess with him and gets bored and moves on.
Better scenario: Girl is nice to Coffin, Coffin makes plans with her and stands her up but gives and excuse next time that ammounts to "I found something better to do". Next week Coffin comments on another women being attractive when they have lunch. Following week Coffin straight up ignores her. Next week Coffin agrees to hang out when she calls and is amicable but remains aloof(plays guitar for an hour while sitting in the same room and uses one word responses). Girl is now interested because she can't figure out what the fuck is wrong with me or predict my behavior. Once there is a spark how I or whoever acts doesn't matter. The One that's fallen rationalizes, blinded by emotion.

Vie, if the roses and such aren't from dude you wat them to be, and he just acts interested will you not just do what you normally do? The only reason you wouldn't is the grand gesture is abnormal enough that your subconscious assumes he's unpredictable enough to be interesting.

Simply put women expect guys to pursue them and do it in standard fashions, if guy doesn't then they are interested. That's a broad generalization and isn't something that applies to every situation but its a model of behavior. Read it how you want to.

[Jah]

Really? I'd wonder who it was. I'm too oblivious to think it'd be the first person I thought it was. Haha
Or if I really feel like I know who it is I confront them. xD

@Jah: Nah that feel where I'm like fuuuuck. I'm alone today with nothing to do and all the tv and the internet reminding me that my relationship derped.
I'm just glad I'm not in highschool. With all the girls that would be like. "So what did you get? I got this bear bigger than my body!"

Pfft, You are strong young lady , go and distract yourself dear. I know many Jerks , my dad , my elder bothers (3 of them ) and my cousin. They always end up alone cause they play with people's emotions. Believe me , you will soon be in a relationship where you get bears bigger than your body .just don't rush it you'll get it bad

[La Vie Cruelle]

Vie, if the roses and such aren't from dude you wat them to be, and he just acts interested will you not just do what you normally do? The only reason you wouldn't is the grand gesture is abnormal enough that your subconscious assumes he's unpredictable enough to be interesting.

If they aren't from the guy I suspect, then yes my normal behavior will go on.

If it is from who I suspect, the guy is odd enough to possibly hold my attention and turn the tables on my little game. The fact that he isnt letting me know his feelings right off the back to see how i react is alluring.

Hook up or relationship, this guy is hawt <.<

[CL0V3R]

Exactly

No, you don't get it. The idea isn't to bash women or be an ass. The idea is to exude confidence, be unpredictible, and avoid standard behavior to create intrest.
Vie draws dude in, dude responds by being a sappy idiot and acts predictable, Vie mess with him and gets bored and moves on.
Better scenario: Girl is nice to Coffin, Coffin makes plans with her and stands her up but gives and excuse next time that ammounts to "I found something better to do". Next week Coffin comments on another women being attractive when they have lunch. Following week Coffin straight up ignores her. Next week Coffin agrees to hang out when she calls and is amicable but remains aloof(plays guitar for an hour while sitting in the same room and uses one word responses). Girl is now interested because she can't figure out what the fuck is wrong with me or predict my behavior.

Vie, if the roses and such aren't from dude you wat them to be, and he just acts interested will you not just do what you normally do? The only reason you wouldn't is the grand gesture is abnormal enough that your subconscious assumes he's unpredictable enough to be interesting.

In all honesty I'd take that as a hint that the other person wasn't genuinely interested or wants to play stupid games with me. I'm not looking for a guy to be unpredictable, or go out of their way to make it seem like they'd rather not hang out with me. I mean sure if they have something else to do that's okay, but wouldn't you just be playing a sort of game as well? Maybe I'm weird but in a relationship I'm looking for my best friend, not some weird dating ritual. If someone just ignores me I'm going to think they are either mad or don't like me. If I haven't done anything and I can't figure it out I'd try talking with them first. Make my feelings known you know? If that were to fail and the other person tried to lead me on a "chase". I'd consider it not worth my time because it isn't what I'm looking for. I want someone who can be honest with me because I'm an overly honest person. I'm blunt and will tell you how I feel. I extend that to the other person as well. Damn it, I just want a best friend that I'm in love with. Because when the newness wears off and the dating state is over, that's really what you're left with. If you can't be a friend with that person your relationship will fail in the long run.

[C0FFINCASE]

In all honesty I'd take that as a hint that the other person wasn't genuinely interested or wants to play stupid games with me. I'm not looking for a guy to be unpredictable, or go out of their way to make it seem like they'd rather not hang out with me. I mean sure if they have something else to do that's okay, but wouldn't you just be playing a sort of game as well? Maybe I'm weird but in a relationship I'm looking for my best friend, not some weird dating ritual. If someone just ignores me I'm going to think they are either mad or don't like me. If I haven't done anything and I can't figure it out I'd try talking with them first. Make my feelings known you know? If that were to fail and the other person tried to lead me on a "chase". I'd consider it not worth my time because it isn't what I'm looking for. I want someone who can be honest with me because I'm an overly honest person. I'm blunt and will tell you how I feel. I extend that to the other person as well. Damn it, I just want a best friend that I'm in love with. Because when the newness wears off and the dating state is over, that's really what you're left with. If you can't be a friend with that person your relationship will fail in the long run.

Clover, you're not weird. You just acknowledge and would use a rational mature method for relationship formation. No one else does that because they can't talk directly with anotr person about how they feel or become uncomfortable when others do. If it'd been more successful I'd still be doing the same thing. But since trying to do that when you run across people like Vie leads to repeated failure and pain you have to adapt and start doing something else. The hope is that eventually you get somewhere with that.

[CL0V3R]

Clover, you're not weird. You just acknowledge and would use a rational mature method for relationship formation. No one else does that because they can't talk directly with anotr person about how they feel or become uncomfortable when others do. If it'd been more successful I'd still be doing the same thing. But since trying to do that when you run across people like Vie leads to repeated failure and pain you have to adapt and start doing something else. The hope is that eventually you get somewhere with that.

My question is, why would you want a relationship based on that? Maybe a fling sure, but why a relationship? You're going to invest that much of yourself in something why not do it right? Would you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone you have to play games with for it to stay interesting? Or do you just do it so you don't end up hurt in the long run? If you're playing the games you're the one in control I guess. I think it's a good reason as to why you should be selective before getting emotionally involved with someone. That way you know the kind of person they are before hand. Edit: I really think people should be friends before dating. In/b/4 friendzone bs.

[C0FFINCASE]

My question is, why would you want a relationship based on that? Maybe a fling sure, but why a relationship? You're going to invest that much of yourself in something why not do it right? Would you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone you have to play games with for it to stay interesting? Or do you just do it so you don't end up hurt in the long run? If you're playing the games you're the one in control I guess. I think it's a good reason as to why you should be selective before getting emotionally involved with someone. That way you know the kind of person they are before hand. Edit: I really think people should be friends before dating. In/b/4 friendzone bs.

Relationship isn't based around it. the attraction and getting into the relationship is. You don't have deep philosophical discussion and then go on a date on fortunately.
Friend zone is not bs. Happens. Men and women can not be friend. You spend any sort of time together or bond and it gets romantic for someone. Also once friends, you don't get to date because of how women categorize you. No matter what you want or how you try they tell you "It'd be like dating my brother."

[CL0V3R]

Relationship isn't based around it. the attraction and getting into the relationship is. You don't have deep philosophical discussion and then go on a date on fortunately.
Friend zone is not bs. Happens. Men and women can not be friend. You spend any sort of time together or bond and it gets romantic for someone. Also once friends, you don't get to date because of how women categorize you. No matter what you want or how you try they tell you "It'd be like dating my brother."

That's not honestly true. To an extent it happens but to be honest the friends zone is usually a result of one of two things. One, they were never interested in you in the first place. Two they had feelings for you but got over them because they perceived it as unrealistic. Very rarely does it ever have anything to do with the whole friend thing. Also I don't get why you can't do that? Have a deep philosophical discussion then go on a date? Or have one while you're on a date, or have one as friends and then date. I also don't get how men and women can't be friends. Sure romantic feelings may happen but it doesn't mean they can't just be friends. I learned that personally when I said that line it was more so because I had such strong feelings for the person I was afraid to date them. It's really girls need to get over that fear of ruining something. I learned the hard way sometimes it's just too damn late to tell that person you love them.

[C0FFINCASE]

I suppose there is backstory to this:
One> I hate platonic relationships, I was forced into several and have maintained those relationships despite the pain and aggravation they bring me.
Two>I don't believe that people have many friends. You have many acquaintances but few friends. So few people wold do everything that a friend entails.
Three>the fact that being stuck in a situation where the person you have feelings for doesn't return them is horrid and terrible.
Four>I'm that guy. People I have had three minute conversations with will call me a week later, bear their souls to me, and ask me how to fix their lives. The result is I'm instantly friend.
Five> I agree about the discussion thing, I just don't see it happen hardly ever because by the time someone is ready to discuss what the meaning of life or what love is its typically once you're in a relationship or so deep in to the friendzone the only way out would be to move to Africa for three years.
Friends don't become lovers. I mean they do but it has to be a short term friendship, it still has to be new. Ten years later you're not going to make it happen suddenly. You get invited to move in with them and stat your lives as budding artist that have a deep complex relationship but she'll never look at you that way regardless of the fact you both admit there is a connection which is why you spend so much damned time...nevermind.
Its the same reason you can't be friends with exes. Feelings don't die. They do but they don't. Yeah you don't live with them every waking moment but ten minutes in her company brings them surging back and you're left kicking yourself the entire time you're having dinner.

[Jenni]

Lol I never Hav valentine's day with anyone , and Jenny Is refusing my proposal. DON'T BREAK MY HEART JENNY SHAY !

Oh I thought you were talking to the other. Jennifer xD plus mota has my heart c:

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If they aren't from the guy I suspect, then yes my normal behavior will go on.

If it is from who I suspect, the guy is odd enough to possibly hold my attention and turn the tables on my little game. The fact that he isnt letting me know his feelings right off the back to see how i react is alluring.

Hook up or relationship, this guy is hawt <.<

Don't you mean right off the bat?

[La Vie Cruelle]

Oh I thought you were talking to the other Jennifer xD Plus, Mota has my heart. c:

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Don't you mean, "right off the bat?"

No shit, Sherlock! Excuse me for making a simple, common mistake on a euphemism because I wasn't honestly paying attention to the auto-correct on my phone.

[Jenni]

No shit, Sherlock! Excuse me for making a simple, common mistake on a euphemism because I wasn't honestly paying attention to the auto-correct on my phone.

Ill be here to correct it for you since for some strange reason you cant seem to catch it.
I honestly thought you were serious.

[La Vie Cruelle]

Ill be here to correct it for you since for some strange reason you cant seem to catch it.
I honestly thought you were serious.

You honestly should pay more attention to using proper grammar and punctuation first, my dear. It just makes you correcting everyone else a lulzfest.

moteOhU:

[Jenni]

You honestly should pay more attention to using proper grammar and punctuation first, my dear. It just makes you correcting everyone else a lulzfest.

moteOhU:

Speaking from experience?
moteOhU:

[La Vie Cruelle]

Speaking from experience?
moteOhU:

No, speaking from observations of how the human race works. If someone who cannot do something properly themselves corrects someone else on the same thing, it just goes in one ear and out the other.

On that note, date time! <3

[Ethan]

Bullshit. I'd refuse to date a guy who was purely a jack ass. If guy doesn't want to try, or wants to treat me like shit they should not expect me to treat them any better. I can't stand guys who put girls down or other people down. They make me angry. There are girls out there that are looking for a stable relationship. Just a lot of them don't make that effort or understand until they mature. I feel like you guys must be going after some really stupid women. Edit: Or women just looking for fun.

I could never be one to put a girl down for stupid shit. It's all my friend does and it makes me really mad.
I would much rather care for a girl than just have her sitting around feeling like shit all the time. She deserves to be treated like she is the world and that's that.

You guys really went ham on having a conversation on this thread. I didn't read most of it because I am really tired but I might or might not get to it tomorrow. x:

Also, Clover I quoted you because I agree, bullshit.

[Jenni]

No, speaking from observations of how the human race works. If someone who cannot do something properly themselves corrects someone else on the same thing, it just goes in one ear and out the other.

On that note, date time! <3

In one ear out the other? Why not just call me a hippocrit? Date and time? What's that got to do with any of this? <3

[La Vie Cruelle]

In one ear out the other? Why not just call me a hippocrit? Date and time? What's that got to do with any of this? <3

Oh I am sorry! I didn't realize you weren't smart enough to understand that as 'goodbye, I have to go now because a man is pulling up to take me out tonight.'

I know, I know. No need to explain. Your mind can't grasp such simple phrases.

[Jenni]

Oh I am sorry! I didn't realize you weren't smart enough to understand that as 'goodbye, I have to go now because a man is pulling up to take me out tonight.'

I know, I know. No need to explain. Your mind can't grasp such simple phrases.

Took 3 hours to think of that? I'm impressed.

[La Vie Cruelle]

Took 3 hours to think of that? I'm impressed.

Apparently you didn't understand that I wasn't around/not on my phone e_e wow everyone's right you really are dumb.

[Jenni]

Apparently you didn't understand that I wasn't around/not on my phone e_e wow everyone's right you really are dumb.

Whatever will keep you here wasting time with me <3 ( its 10 and I'm tired get off my back ) Me dumb? I'm not the one still posting in the pointless chat we are having c: Explain to me earlier what you meant by date and time as far as I'm concerned you know nothing of where I live, meanwhile you live in -Removed by Thomas- c: what street do I live on? c:

[La Vie Cruelle]

Whatever will keep you here wasting time with me <3 ( its 10 and I'm tired get off my back ) Me dumb? I'm not the one still posting in the pointless chat we are having c: Explain to me earlier what you meant by date and time as far as I'm concerned you know nothing of where I live, meanwhile you live in c: what street do I live on? c:

lol I never said date and time; I said date time you stupid fuck. I also explained that already.

Kay? And? I see tori is still feeding you BS old info. LOOOOL. Just like he tells me everything you say and then makes a comment on it.

[Torian]

lol I never said date and time; I said date time you stupid fuck. I also explained that already.

Kay? And? I see tori is still feeding you BS old info. LOOOOL. Just like he tells me everything you say and then makes a comment on it.

Hah, I love how you keep thinking I'm the one doing shit between you two's catfight.





Keep your pointless bitch-fighting away from me plox

[La Vie Cruelle]

Hah, I love how you keep thinking I'm the one doing shit between you two's catfight.

Keep your pointless bitch-fighting away from me plox

I'm sorry that one day you kept throwing in my face you were making it a "level playing field". Don't say things that incriminate you then.

[Torian]

I'm sorry that one day you kept throwing in my face you were making it a "level playing field". Don't say things that incriminate you then.

The fact that you didn't believe me on the phone pissed me off to no end >_> But whatever, it's not like we've been friends for the past few years or anything.

[Jenni]

lol I never said date and time; I said date time you stupid fuck. I also explained that already.

Kay? And? I see tori is still feeding you BS old info. LOOOOL. Just like he tells me everything you say and then makes a comment on it.

Its just funny how much shit just spews from your mouth. And okay lets pretend you don't live on -removed by thomas- doesn't change the fact that youre lieing about that and countless other things( I mean look at Tori's post, youre a horrible liar and are not good at trolling so please quit while youre ahead~) . At first this was a bit entertaining now you've gone an bored me I'm off for a run thru on skyrim. Au revoir~

[Elliot]

Your drama resulted in a phone call interrupting my special time e_e. Stop posting her damn street.

[Alexx]

You im still sad that during sophmore year i fucked up on the chance to sleep with one of the most beautiful girls in school.. she let me motorboat her and she totally wanted my dick but i fucked up my chance and didnt take advantage of it.. till this day i regret it.. sometimes i fap to her pics.. she works at in-n-out and everytime i go there i see her and i get nervous and im like why were you so fucking stupid why you dumb piece of fucking shit fuck me.

[Jenni]

Your drama resulted in a phone call interrupting my special time e_e. Stop posting her damn street.

Its a bit disturbing how much it sounds like she has you doing as she says e.e
I expected her to be more butthurt than when I said she lived in Ethel, ill be the bigger person and stop participating in this childish feud.

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You im still sad that during sophmore year i fucked up on the chance to sleep with one of the most beautiful girls in school.. she let me motorboat her and she totally wanted my dick but i fucked up my chance and didnt take advantage of it.. till this day i regret it.. sometimes i fap to her pics.. she works at in-n-out and everytime i go there i see her and i get nervous and im like why were you so fucking stupid why you dumb piece of fucking shit fuck me.

Um..okay? c:

[Ethan]

You im still sad that during sophmore year i fucked up on the chance to sleep with one of the most beautiful girls in school.. she let me motorboat her and she totally wanted my dick but i fucked up my chance and didnt take advantage of it.. till this day i regret it.. sometimes i fap to her pics.. she works at in-n-out and everytime i go there i see her and i get nervous and im like why were you so fucking stupid why you dumb piece of fucking shit fuck me.

Ah man, I was in a similar situation except that I lost my virginity to the girl because I actually did have sex with her. And I regret it more that I took advantage of the situation we were in. I should have never got involved with her in the first place. She was a dime though, one of the greatest asses I have ever seen. That was a lifetime ago, the summer right before Senior year. I want it back. ):

NOTE:: I was not dating this girl at the time. My girlfriend count as of 02/09/12: 1. And that 1 doesn't even really count because it was 7th grade and she only said yes because she didn't want to feel bad in saying no.

[Elliot]

Its a bit disturbing how much it sounds like she has you doing as she says e.e
I expected her to be more butthurt than when I said she lived in Ethel, ill be the bigger person and stop participating in this childish feud.

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Um..okay? c:

I told her to call me the second drama happened on LG. This just happened to involve her. I edited all the stuff because this has gone too damn far. A city is fair enough, that's easy to get. But her street is going too far. Yes, I would have done the same if she posted your street name.

Also, you're somewhat new and didn't experience the drama breakout of '10 that caused half the active members to quit. So I'll fill you in, I don't take kindly to drama on LG anymore. Please, take it to a PM, Skype, Or w/e. Just not on the forums.