Ello poppet.

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30 Oct. 2010, 12:51am
La Vie Cruelle

Ello poppet.

Shut up, sit down, and listen.

Getting married in the next few months. Bad part? Haven't told my parents yet. In need of funny/non-awkward ways of telling them. BTW: They are over-controlling, rage when they don't get their way, and still treat me like a 10-year old. They know it's going to happen sooner or later. They failed their last daughter, and don't want me to really want to let me go.

Any strange off beat ideas for my planning, go ahead. Colors, theme, you name it. Yes, I've thought this through for a year now. Shut the hell up about my age, and no I'm not preggo.
30 Oct. 2010, 12:55am
Taz

Gratz and i really don't know of a way to tell them.
30 Oct. 2010, 01:08am
Drakonid

First of all, congratulations.
Second, just go straight forward with your parents, and be firm.
30 Oct. 2010, 01:10am
La Vie Cruelle

Quote:

Originally Posted by Agustín

First of all, congratulations.
Second, just go straight forward with your parents, and be firm.

Thanks guys.
My dad is the intimidator. He just glares. I figured I would have to be firm though. Barely ever stood up to them in my life. Going to be hellish when I decide to do it.
30 Oct. 2010, 01:14am
Drakonid

Well, I think it will be the best.
As for themes, Pirate wedding?
30 Oct. 2010, 01:17am
La Vie Cruelle

Quote:

Originally Posted by Agustín

Well, I think it will be the best.
As for themes, Pirate wedding?

oh god no >_>
Despite my fiance might scream yes, no. <_< I don't know. Call me old fashioned. I like elegant.
30 Oct. 2010, 01:20am
Drakonid

Quote:

Originally Posted by Azrael

Any strange off beat ideas for my planning, go ahead. Colors, theme, you name it.

B-but... .
30 Oct. 2010, 01:21am
La Vie Cruelle

Quote:

Originally Posted by Agustín

B-but... .

I know, i know <_< but my fiance would take pirate too far. XD
30 Oct. 2010, 01:25am
Drakonid

70's ?
30 Oct. 2010, 01:32am
Souleater

Quote:

Originally Posted by Azrael

Shut up, sit down, and listen.

Getting married in the next few months. Bad part? Haven't told my parents yet. In need of funny/non-awkward ways of telling them. BTW: They are over-controlling, rage when they don't get their way, and still treat me like a 10-year old. They know it's going to happen sooner or later. They failed their last daughter, and don't want me to really want to let me go.

Any strange off beat ideas for my planning, go ahead. Colors, theme, you name it. Yes, I've thought this through for a year now. Shut the hell up about my age, and no I'm not preggo.

Do it in a S+M outfit. Oh. And have a dog collar that says bitch on it. On your fiancee`.
30 Oct. 2010, 01:33am
CL0V3R

Tell them straight forward, if they have a problem with it tell them it's your life and you have the right to live it any way you want to.
As far as planning I never really care how I got married/will get married, though if you're looking for something romantic you can get married in sedona.
Sedona Weddings | Sedona Wedding Planner, Arizona Weddings.
Or
The Venetian - Resort, Hotel, Casino. and get married on a gondola at the venetian.

If you want something a little more out there, have some sort of crazy themed wedding.
30 Oct. 2010, 01:36am
Souleater

Quote:

Originally Posted by CL0V3R

Tell them straight forward, if they have a problem with it tell them it's your life and you have the right to live it any way you want to.
As far as planning I never really care how I got married/will get married, though if you're looking for something romantic you can get married in sedona.
Sedona Weddings | Sedona Wedding Planner, Arizona Weddings.
Or
The Venetian - Resort, Hotel, Casino. and get married on a gondola at the venetian.

If you want something a little more out there, have some sort of crazy themed wedding.

I like the way I said it better.
30 Oct. 2010, 01:46am
Defy

http://i87.photobucket.com/albums/k1...rty_dots-1.jpg
30 Oct. 2010, 01:51am
C0FFINCASE

You want them to approve get dude to ask permission then set up proposal with them, then act surprised when it happens. Other option is get knocked up,the kind of people your dad seems to be usually demand shot gun weddings.

My best suggestion would be to not get married. You're too young and if people won't approve it will only make the challenge that is marriage that much harder.
Sorry.
30 Oct. 2010, 01:52am
Fluxo

Inb4

"Listen, I am a grown woman now. I make my own choices, and I choose to be with (insert fiances name here). We are planning on getting married and I couldn't be any happier. Life without him would be torment. I know you are scared of what will happen, but it is a part of growing up. I have to take responsibility in life. I want you guys to come to. I love (insert fiances name here) but I will always love you guys more"

~Fluxo
30 Oct. 2010, 02:25am
Souleater

@everyone: I still like the way I said it better.
30 Oct. 2010, 02:42am
BooBearSH

What the hell? You're getting married, WITHOUT ME?!
30 Oct. 2010, 03:36am
[V]onster

Quote:

Originally Posted by BooBearSH

What the hell? You're getting married, WITHOUT ME?!

rofl... best post in this so far
30 Oct. 2010, 03:38am
Omlett

Big Congratulations.
i hope its long lived with health and good will