Not sure what church you're going to.
Catholic church accepts gays. You're allowed to be gay, you don't go to hell for it, you can be a priest, totally accepted aside from marriage which the church holds as a covenant that requires a man and a women for only then can it mirror the relationship between God and the Church.
Really? Because I talked to a catholic priest guy and he's like, "it's ok to be gay. But because you can't get married, no sex." I'm like, "wow... that's... pretty dumb"