Need some life help. Also, Hi my names Martin(IMVU) Anyone remember me?
Hey, I was a member on this site, 3-4 years ago, was really active, then got side tracked with a lot of life problems. So I didn't really find time to be an active member here, kind of miss it. Had a lot of friends :/ How is everyone?
Well anyways, I have some issues in life I am trying to figure out.
Here's the deal.
I dropped out of school at 15, to help my mother with bills, been working full time since, and haven't found time to juggle my job, my school + my family and fiance.
I'm 18 now, and I live with my fiance and her father, we renovated the basement to our standards, and are staying here until we find money to move out. But I have a dream, I want to be a fighter. Ever since I was 13, i've been fascinated with mixed martial arts, loved every minute of it.
Ever since then I've my own home tournaments, where we'd fight for money. I have a 13-2 record with 7 KOs and 5 Submissions and one TKO stoppage. 2 submission losses. I love the thrill, I love the feeling ( might be kinda weird.. ) I just love all of it.
But here's the problem. I have minimal bills to pay, just 100$ for insurance, 50$ for phone and 100$ for rent a month. Thats just 250$ of bills. Yet I still go broke, some how IDK.
But I want to fight. I want to train, but in a legit way. I rigth now have a factory job from 6am-4pm 6 days a week. I'm tried, and I'm unhappy, i make decent money sure, but I'm 18 and I'm not following my dreams, so I'm unhappy. I get mad at my fiance all the time, because of my stress. It's like a dog with a big backyard of oppurtunities to have fun, but being locked in the house all day every day... I hate it.
My dream is to do this
Work part time 25-30hrs a week. Making around 200$ a week, enough to pay bills. I'd need 400$ a month to pay it all including training.
Finish my GED so if fighting does NOT work out the way I want, I have an education ( finally ) to fall back on. My career path choice is to have a career in computer engineering or Law Enforcement ( Fear not I have no problem with online illegal crap haha )
And eventually if it works out, well self explanitory, I want to be a professional mixed martial artist. That's my dream.
But my fiance wants me to work full time so we have money fo-dayz. But I don't like this sacrifice I'm making of happiness... It did take me 3 years to find a good full time job making 2k a month, but it's terribly stressful...
What does LG think of my problem and, what would you do??
Also, this is my old account. View Profile: Martin - Logical Gamers - Gaming Cheats and Hacks
If anyone can reset my password that'd be nice. I don't remember my e-mails password... lol