What's the perfect way to talk to a girl?
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What's the perfect way to talk to a girl?
Smooth, genuine, charismatic, and poised. But most importantly be yourself and don't try too hard to be the quintessential cool guy. Girls like it real best.
Best way I can explain it. Google the words if you need to. Though talking to girls should be second nature to you if you aren't overly shy or nervous or anything.
Be confident.
Copy pasting from the last time I posted this:
The reason you should be yourself is because it shows confidence. When you are putting on a facade, you aren't confident. Why kind of person isn't confident? Not the kind of person a girl wants to date. You know what's worse? Being the girl that a non-confident guy thinks he has a shot with. Not being confident is insulting to the girl. What you're essentially saying to her is "You're shitty enough for me to think I have a chance." Panty dropper.
Be yourself. Be confident. Confidence says "I'm an amazing person. Not only that, but I think you're an amazing person too." Except you don't even have to say those things, so it's not clingy and awkward. She picks up on it.
Like Mr. Charles said, be yourself. Be confident. Don't be a douche or try to impress her, it's a bad idea. Don't ask her if she wants the D. Don't shove your dick in her mouth. Also, rape is not the answer.
Definitely don't rape her.
Tell her you want to bang her :D , most girls in Oklahoma will go for that and have sex with you after 1 hour of knowing them :D
Look at their lips
Def be a asshole to them. Seen plenty of guys get pussy from that donno if its only from where i live but that works most the time. Dont be a little bitch. Be funny.
I heard girls like when people look at their lips. I'm not a girl though so I can't verify ^_^
Be yourself.
Eye contact.
Don't fuck either of those two up and you are set.
Eye contact isn't actually that necessary, but it is actually very useful in gauging how the other person feels about you by watching their eye contact and other physical cues.
Eye contact is pretty necessary. As someone who prefers non eye contact, I can tell you this. One time this one girl approached and talked to me and I didn't make eye contact the entire time. She asked me "why aren't you looking at me?"
If you aren't making eye contact you're just going to come off as weird or nervous.
TL;DR - Eye contact is socially imperative. Lets peeps know they have your attention.
No, no. I'm not saying you need none of it. You obviously need to make it. But a lot of people worry about not sustaining it, which is what I was saying isn't a necessity (but is often said to be). Look at them, but it's okay to look at the peripherals for a few seconds every now and then. But definitely, definitely make eye contact.