Its one of those days....

I walk out of school and into my moms car, and find my sister there in the passenger seat, and my mom driving, but she was crying and my sister was to, so when i get home(About 30 minutes later) I found out my dad has left us for a few days(Maybe more) and I sit on the back porch with my laptop surfing the web, and i hear my mom yelling through her cell phone at my dad, saying My sister(Taylor) ''Will have a excellent life and won't be brought down because of you!'' and I walk in and go to the room next to the living room, and hear my mom talk in a low pitch voice, but then I hear this ''If you ever touch one of my kids again, I'll Kill you!'' After hearing that it sounded like my sister got either raped or molested, and now my world has changed in a different manner because of this, I mean like my dad would never really do this, without a serious meaning to it, or having thought about it for a while, and I seriously wish this day didn't happen(Yes it happened today) and now I have a possibility of losing my dad(He was married to my Mother for 23 years) But who knows, it might happen it might not. My mom said he was coming back to get a few things in 2 days, so yea....

Tell me your thoughts on this, and suggestions.

Lol she's probably just saying she doesn't want him near any of you. They probably got into a fight, and she's contemplating a divorce. Common marital issues. On the other hand, your speculation of him sexually abusing your sister could also be true. But I'd say it's a lower probability.

Anyway, my only suggestion would be to try to reconcile (more specifically trying to mitigate the issues on both ends - i.e. you could try talking to the both of them), or gradually let things fall back into place.

Good luck.

P.S. In the event that this was indeed rape, then frankly their relationship is cold turkey. And it would probably be better off that way anyway.

"If you ever touch one of my kids again" sounds more like the possibility of physical violence. While it could still be possibly something else happened why don't you talk to your mom directly? I think it's probably best to find out from the source verses speculating. Then after you find out what exactly happened, work your way from there, talk to both parties, ect.

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Originally Posted by CL0V3R

"If you ever touch one of my kids again" sounds more like the possibility of physical violence. While it could still be possibly something else happened why don't you talk to your mom directly? I think it's probably best to find out from the source verses speculating. Then after you find out what exactly happened, work your way from there, talk to both parties, ect.

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See that's just the thing, If i ask my mom, She will say she can't go into to much detail, and only tells me that my father won't be with us for a while, and then ignores me.

Maybe she thinks it's best you don't know so it doesn't ruin your image of/relationship with your father.

It'll become clear to you one day as to why it all happened. Until then, you just have to be there for your family. Emotions are probably whirling around like a tornado between them, so it's best to let them calm down.