How to truly be happy [TuT]
So, do you really want to know how to find Happiness?
Well, I can tell you.
If you lose your car keys and try looking for them, chances are, you're NEVER going to find them. They just randomly show up when you don't expect it.
Happiness works that way. If you try looking for happiness, and try to find something that makes you happy, chances are you're not going to find it because you'll always be questioning yourself.
However, when you finally hit that point, when you don't expect it, then you'll know you're going to be okay.
You'll know absolutely nothing in the world can bring you down, or stop you from doing whatever you want to do.
I don't believe in Restraints. The way I see it, absolutely NOTHING can bring anybody down. We all grow and learn from the shit life throws at us, and that's a hell of a gain as opposed to what you may have just lost.
If you want to travel, there is absolutely nothing stopping you. It's as easy as going down to Dysarts or any sort of stop truckers make, and ask for a ride to wherever they're going.
It doesn't cost anything but a fine handshake and kind words between newly found friends.
I can guarantee you 9 times out of 10, as long as you don't look like a convict (And hell, maybe even then) they will give you a ride.
The company and conversation is good, and they've got the extra seat.
Everywhere you go you'll be presented with new opportunities and over time, sort or long, and your decision on that could change your entire life. Sounds scary, but why? Because you can completely fuck yourself over? Suck it up. Nothings stopping you, and no matter how badly you fuck up your bed, it only takes 5 minutes to take the time and make it when you wake up, or whenever you want for that matter.
One of the biggest things you'll come across in life is people. Their influence, their general way of being, and you'll find their opinion of you bothers you. Whether they think you're a Slut, Bitch, Asshole, Communist, Nazi, Incestuous ******, whatever it may be, their opinion doesn't mean anything because they don't know who you are.
Bugs don't know who you are either, but you're not going to kill yourself because it thinks you're the most frightening thing on the planet. You're going to squash the shit out of it and walk on. Then you'll forget about it 3 seconds later. Anybody who doesn't know you, their opinion means as much as a bugs. And the situation is just as easy to treat that way.
Let me put you in a setting.
"You're walking down the sidewalk to the store to get coffee"
"You trip on a missing chunk of the curb,"
"You fall over, and look around to see who saw you."
"If somebody saw you, you'll feel embarassed and laugh along about it."
Then what do you do next?
You brush yourself off, feel whatever stings, and keep going to the store to do what you were trying to do in the first place. The best part? You'll forget about it 5 minutes later, and laugh about it with somebody later when you tell them what happened.
Life and Happiness works this way. We may not know what we want or where we're going, but we're going. We will trip on curbs, and if anybody saw us they'd surely giggle a bit, and we'd join them. But all you really CAN do is stand back up, brush yourself off, and keep going.
You've got somewhere good to go, even if you don't know where it is yet. You'll get there in the end. And you'll take a lot of crazy turns through dark alleyways and bright meadows and over great oceans that you may sink in a couple times.
But you'll get there.
Nobody is stopping you.
You're capable of doing the greatest things the world has ever seen.
As long as you're happy, nothing matters.
And if you're not happy, don't give up. You'll get there.
Nobody is holding you back.
Nothing is stopping you.
Life is shaped by your bare hands into whatever you want it to be.
Push your hands closer, and it takes an hourglass shape wherever you put your hands on it.
Spread your fingers over it and watch the crazy perfect designs form effortlessly.
Press down on it with your palm and make it short and fat.
squeeze your hands closer together and it'll get taller and thinner.
Life is what you make it.
You can do it. we all can.
Make it your own, and go off to do great things.
After all, who's stopping you?
